If You Ain't Happy, You Ain't Trying.

"If you are so unhappy then why aren't you making progress towards making the -un disappear from that word permanently?" -Kazie

One thing I despise the most is drama. The other...bitching.

Now by "bitching" in my view since every person on this planet likes to tweak the definition with their personal preferences...is complaining, sobering, yelling, talking about all the negativity surrounding them and STILL doing the same old, same old.

It doesn't take someone with common sense to figure out that if you nag on the regular basis on let's say...how you don't earn enough money and that you're constantly broke but yet you do nothing to change it. Pay attention!!! In order for something to change, you have to put in some effort.

Let's take the situation stated in the previous paragraph shall we? Here's a few tips for that...

• Find another job
• Save about 10% per paycheck into your savings
• Find spending alternatives that are cheaper
• Don't spend so much on food and the hottest clothes or video games, etc, etc, etc.
• And many more!

I'm started to get a little aggravated when I constantly hear on the daily basis about people's problems but when I ask what are they gonna do about it, it's as if they're a deer starring at the headlights of an incoming SUV at full speed.

It is normal to have problems since well...everybody has them; including yours truly. But if all you do is bitch about them getting worse and not putting in the effort for a positive change then quite frankly you must be happy being in that crappy situation to begin with.

So do something about it. Give your spouse a piece of your mind if they are treating you like yesterday's garbage; Start saving some cash if you want that brand new dress or new pair of Air Jordans; The friend that betrayed you? Kick em to the curb. Be confident that you DESERVE happiness when everybody around seems to be giving you the cold shoulder.

Don't get caught up in all the negativity and let it change you to be a bitch. The world doesn't like bitches...hence why you see them on the corner. It may look like the world is against you now, but with work and determination you can conquer the world.

If you ain't happy, you ain't trying.