The Daily: Success

Critical Thursday 2!

Thursday is here! Time to bring out the ol' think bucket!

I was very surprised at how many people and shares that my first Critical Thursday post (Link!) received and just wanted to say thanks to all those that read, commented, and shared. Love All Yo Faces.

But onward we go for Round 2!

This week's question/topic is...

What do you define as "Making It"?

We all come from different backgrounds and upbringings across the globe but we all have a connection to this idea of "making it". And by making it, it could differ in personal details based on who you ask.

Some define "making it" in your riches, others with your occupation, some look at your house, etc, etc, etc. There are a variety of factors that people can make a judgment on someone making it but what does making it mean to the person that you just so happen to be?

In my view, some people define as "making it" without the regard of the material things and define it with waking up the next day. Some people are not as fortunate as others with waking up in a warm bed, eating a nice home cooked meal, or even going to a closet and picking out an attire to wear for the new day. Some have to wake up on sidewalks, park benches, dumpsters; basically a fight for survival each day out here in a world of chaos. However, based on their situation it might suck big time but some are happy that they are able to close their eyes and then re-open them to see another day. That could be some people's version of "making it"; seeing the future right now here in the present in an environment that doesn't look promising that they would even make it one more day.

Others can define "making it" love wise; some look at your partner and based that on if you're a success story or just another victim. A chosen few do find their lifelong partner in the earliest stages of their lives while others go through the ringer trying to find the one. And some don't even bother trying anymore after that first breakup/stab wound to the heart and just go it alone. But yeah...love can play a factor of "making it". Whether you're hetero on homo (Not judging.), love can have a strong effect on a person and their idea of "making it." 

Money, cars, cribs, mansions. People would only dream of this kind of lifestyle and define "making it" in this fashion. You got that wad of cash? You got that new car of dreams? How about a house that's not a double wide? The material side of things can come into play with "making it" since...well you need money to buy expensive things right? For me, I wouldn't judge this sense as the end all-be all of "making it" but some people just do. But if you are able to make it rain, then by all means go ahead. Just give me a warning so I can bring out my umbrella...ella...ella...ey!

"Making It"; It's a interesting concept to dissect and zoom in with microscopes to figure out the working details behind the words.

Putting myself under the microscope...I would define "making it" as having the ability to live comfortably and able to provide for yourself daily without fault. In simpler terms...you're able to survive and live by yourself without the assistance of others.  You have your own income, car, crib, and skill-set to live a good life for you, yourself, and that other pronoun that is not I.  I'm not knocking anyone that does not have this abstract idea of mine...you guys are living your lives how you choose. But this is how I view someone as "making it" on this 3rd rock from the sun.

Do I factor love into it? Yeah to a point...If you find your special someone that makes you happy and you make them happy then yes I can see that as "making it" in one part of the spectrum; I can also see some people that don't want a partner at all and still "make it". Now I can (experienced and have) seen love torture situations with promise and mess up a feel good story and turn it into a sorrow dark spell. With love, it's all up to the eye of the beholder. If you want it, just don't be so assumed by the want of it because you will ruin yourself. If you don't, well just keep doing what your doing.

Your inner circle will also play a factor. Friendships can help motivate and even inspire others to keep fighting and clawing towards their dreams. You can have 1, 5, 287, or 30,000+. Friends can make you feel alright and in your zone socially and spiritually which can fuel your fire and put a permanent smirk on that face of yours. Plus you can throw a nice "Making It" block party in celebration once you reach that plateau...and also get invited to theirs. PAR-TAY!

There are some feel good rags to riches stories out here of people that made it; and I truly believe that EVERYONE has a shot of making it, reaching their dreams, and accomplishing their goals. All of these vary from person to person but all of us can "Make It". Never ever give up on what you believe in and what you want to accomplish...and above all else...BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. We all go through trials and tribulations in our life cycles that curb stomp us down to the ground and knock the wind out of us; that doesn't mean that you stay on the ground permanently. 

Treat your wounds, pick yourself up, build on your strengths and weaknesses, and keep moving forward.

We all have the power to do great things on this Earth.

Like one of my favorite gym shirts says...Make It Happen.

Build Yourself For Success.

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her.

-David Brinkley

Enjoy Hump Day!

Props to redmemet for the pic!

Motivation From The Master #4

"Don't let one negative ruin a group of positives" -Kazie

What a busy day for me...

Here's a well-organized bullet list to explain the events that took place during the last 24 hours.

• Woke up, took a shower, got dressed
• Went to my Criminology class where we talked about Prostitution and Social Order crimes with our professor and police officer who was a special instructor.
• Talked to some music promoters at the radio station I worked at.
• Did my video game news show, 32-BiT, on the air with M.C.
• Worked on editing my Forensics Science class CSI Trailer Project for my group.
• Ate 2 slices of pizza
• Drank 3 cups of Sierra Mist
• Randomness at the station with co-workers and our business manager
• Help set up our soundboard for our Christmas Parade coverage coming up
• Met up with my girlfriend at 7-11 for a Slurpee run.
• Hung out with her while working on Forensics.
• Dropped her off at her evening class on campus
• Watched How I Met Your Mother
• Picked her back up, went to grab a bite, then back to her place.
• Finished my Project.
• Hugs and Kisses.
• Went home around midnight.
• Did a light workout.
• Crashed on the bed around 1.

Quite a lot huh? But there's one I didn't mention.

• I got my car towed

You would that this would set someone overboard? But it didn't actually since I had a very calm, fun, and productive day. Now I'm not gonna lie and say that I was happy that this happen...far from it. I was freaking out a tad since, well my car was gone. But once I figured it out and got a ride from my friend up to the tow lot and the reason why it happened...I just paid my dues and moved on.

I was not gonna let one bad thing ruin everything because it's not worth going through stress, anger, and other emotions that lead you to having a bad day even when things seemed to be going your way. Overall, I was happy that the tow guy was not a douche and was very professional about it. So that eased my tension down dramatically. Plus it was simple and quick.

Overall, the day was busy but at the end of the day it was a very great day. I felt like I accomplished something. Yeah, the 110 dollars I spent to get my car out hurt but at least I have a job and I can get that back where it belongs...in my savings. So I was blessed on this day to and hope that your day was great as well.

Don't let one negative ruin a variety of positives. It will make your day seem meaningless and dry instead of blooming and full of meaning. Keep striving and being productive.

Oh yeah, and don't park in a permit only spot when you don't have one for over an hour.

Show No Fear...Just Live.

"If you have stage fright, it never goes away. But then I wonder: is the key to that magical performance because of the fear?" -Stevie Nicks

Show No Fear...What's the worse that can happen?

OK. Before you think of 20+ reasons of what can happen to you in the next few minutes I want you to shove those negative thoughts straight up where the sun don't even think about shining and be positive while reading this little rant of mine.

People should not be afraid in this life because there is so much out here for you to indulge in to keep you happy and care-free. Friends, events, concerts, video games, guitar solos, even reading a book can keep your mind at easy without thinking that your world is gonna end every 30 seconds.

Of course we as human beings have to look toward our futures because we want everything to be absolutely perfect when we get to a certain age. We gotta get good grades cause that will give us that 7 figure job that will buy that brand new mansion made out of gold brick with platinum flooring and a badass laser security system to protect our wife that models for Victoria's Secret on occasion while taking care of our perfect kids.

Ladies and gents I hate to break it to you but this dream will happen to only 0.02% of the population on this Earth....sorry to shatter your dreams.

But as long as you make an effort and stop worrying about not always getting things right the first time, you will be fine. So what if your not book-smart enough to be a doctor? That doesn't mean that your life is sentenced to running through trash cans to get your next meal.

STOP STRESSING!!!

Keep the stress and fear at a minimal...as long as you don't be lazy and try to make good out of yourself and try to accomplish your goals then the fear should disintegrate like a package of C4. Set up some goals that you believe that you can accomplish and live the way YOU want to live life...don't let anyone tell you how to LIVE YOUR OWN DAMN LIFE!

The world is your playground, go play on the swingset next to the 600 foot waterslide and enjoy yourself!!!

Objectives Towards a Great 2Day!

“Success is going from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.” - Winston Churchill

Hey people!!

It's a rainy day in the neighborhood here, but I still got a smile on my face. Here's a few tips for you on your quest to an awesome day and even more awesome you.

• Release Your Energy: In order to be happy, ya gotta have energy!!! Find something today that will keep you on your toes and focused while making you happy at the same time. Things like a trip to the gym, cooking in the kitchen, drawing, or YouTube random funny vids can be a boost to your happiness.

• Don't Overdo Your Workload: I can say firsthand that multitasking is great; but sometimes it is a bad thing trying to handle 40 important things at the same time. Take a breath and focus on doing one thing then heading towards the next so that just in case you screw something up you can easily fix it. Make a to-do list and go by it one by one...trust me, it will save a few headaches today.

• Make Room For Your Empty Stomach: Grr....what was that? It was your stomach. Don't skip lunch today cause your body will hate you for the rest of day. EAT!!! If you can't make enough time in your busy schedule for a lunch break, be sure to have a few drinks or snacks handy....and make sure you have a napkin if you pig out. I can see the honey mustard stain on your shirt from here.

• Reward Your Success: Now I don't mean buy yourself a new BMW z4 for pete's sake. (If you can afford that, can you give me one?) But for all your hard work today, treat yourself to something nice like a chocolate sundae or a trip to the massage parlor or even a beer with friends at the local pub at the end of a long day. Kick you feet up and just chill; You deserve it.

Follow these tips and you should be on your way to feeling great while accomplishing some of your goals. That's the blueprint...now get out there and do great things today!


Ready...BREAK!!!